Well, after spending some time digging around I’ve found the trouble with my network.  So I had two systems in the same box, one cloned from the other.  So after running through all the different scenarios, I found that individually, both systems worked fine.  Only when I turned on both systems at the same time did my network problems begin.  I did some hunting on google, and as I often find, my situation is unique…  well, at least unique enough that no one else has posted a solution 🙂

But Virtualbox did give me some clues…  it got me thinking that it might be the network for the virtual system causing the issue.  So I tried changing from a bridged adapter, with no luck.  Then by a stroke of genius, or a stroke of luck, I finally noticed the option to refresh the MAC address.

Magically, everything started working again.  So the morale of the story is if you clone a machine, make sure you change the MAC address, it could make all the difference.

I recently met up with a friend of mine, and he told me about someone I had worked with in the past.  He told how her 13 year old son just died of cancer.  Well, I don’t care who you are, that hits you in the gut.  I can’t even begin to imagine how that feels, and I pray I never have to.  My heart goes out to Trina.

Now for the rest of us, the only good that can come out of this is make sure you don’t take anything for granted.  Give your kids, friends and family an extra hug the next time you see them.  We all know the cliche about how short life is…  well, we need to remember that we don’t really know how short any life might be.  So appreciate what you have every day, and even when things seem tough, remember how much tougher they would be without those family and friends to get you through it.  And never waste an opportunity to tell them how much they mean to you.

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Well, I’m back in this never ending battle with the network.  I’m trying to run two systems off the same box.  I have plenty of horsepower, but for some reason, when I fire up both machines, the external connection becomes VERY slow.  I’m still trying to figure out exactly what’s going on…  but let’s start with one of my latest revelations when dealing with networking to my virtual machines.

I was originally having a challenge with connecting to my systems.  Often it would take 3 & 4 times to get connected to my SAP systems.  What I found is that within my AT&T network configuration is that to get a consistent connection, I needed to add the SAP port numbers to the static IP address, rather than the machine address that I was originally doing.

Now this works great, until I attempt to run 2 machines at the same time.  So, I’m back on the detective hunt to determine what happened…  if you have any suggestions, I’d love to hear them 🙂

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I’ve recently been thinking about the complex nature of connecting with people.  Have you noticed how there are some people that you just instantly connect with, you start talking and feel totally at ease, while other people you struggle to get through pleasantries?  I’ve read multiple books that talk about different personality types, motivations, speaking styles, etc.  But at the end of the day, in my opinion it all comes down to chemistry.  So, can you make that chemistry?  or it just something you either have or you don’t?

Now, I’m no expert, my wife will attest to that.  I’m often a little introverted, a little stand offish, but once I get to know someone, we are typically friends for life.  It doesn’t matter if it’s professional or personal.  So what does it take to make that connection?  Now there is an entire science of personality traits, introvert, extrovert, sensing, judging, etc…  I can’t deny this plays a part, but doesn’t it have more to do with some commonalities?  For those of you in sales, I’m sure you might be laughing  at my naivete right now.  It’s ok, I often laugh at myself too 🙂  But really, no matter who you are, or what you do, there are two things nearly everyone loves to talk about.  Common experiences and themselves.

I’m working hard to improve my own communications skills, and every good book tells you that you need to be a good listener.  Well, listening is harder than it seems, unless you can find genuine interest.  Now for me, there is no faster way to build interest than to find something in common.  It might be sports, music, children, or movies.  But if you don’t find something in common, it will be incredibly difficult to ever build a real connection with anyone.  So, can you find a commonality without playing 20 questions?  I’m struggling with this myself.  How can you get someone to open up about themselves without it sounding like the inquisition?

Of course, you can fake it, but let’s be honest, we all know when someone is faking it when we’re talking to them, and no real connection ever occurs.  Listening helps, but the book I’m reading makes a great point about this.  You have to listen with real interest, not a “what’s in it for me interest”, or “I have to remember all these details so I can bring them up later when I try to close the sale” interest.  That internal radar we all have, will quickly light up and warn us that we’re just a prospect and there is no real connection  .

So, what’s the solution…  we need to make a real connection.  But what’s the secret?  My good friend Clint is amazing at this skill.  I really believe he can walk up to any random person and find some obscure connection after talking to them for a few minutes.  Sometimes its a hometown, old job, school, sporting event, or vacation.  The key is finding a way to genuinely connect with the person and make yourself someone they can relate to.  This won’t guarantee a sale, but it is pretty much guaranteed to kill any sale if you can’t connect with a prospect.

I guess the point of all of this is that you need to be truly interested in who you are talking to.  Only then can you find that common ground, that magic chemistry.  So make a friend first.  Maybe they won’t be your best friend that you tell your deepest secrets to, but treat them as a friend first, not a prospect.  We all know when someone is trying to sell us.  I believe that connection chemistry can be built…  just find that common ground and build from there.

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If you’re a sports fan like I am, Go Pack Go, you might recognize some of the familiar phrases I’ll put out here in terms of dealing with a tough loss, or even an upcoming tough game…

“sometimes a good ass kicking is what it takes to turn things around”
“it was close, they played a great game, but just couldn’t finish”
“if it wasn’t for that bad call, we would’ve won”

Isn’t it funny how we make these excuses for our favorite teams.  Would we make the same excuses for ourselves???  Do you often tell yourself, “I really needed to lose big”?  well, I can tell you, I never tell that to myself. Maybe not, but I’m sure you make similar excuses in your business world.  If you’re a sales person, how often do you justify things.  “They’ll say yes in two weeks”, “they fell on hard times, but they’ll buy when things get better”, “if only someone smarter was making the buying decisions”.  I know that I try to stay positive, but even the best of us justify failure.

Now I know, I make some of these same justifications.  We always hope they are true.  But where do you draw the line between uplifting and fairy tale?  In my world, I don’t often think about this, because I believe so fully in what I’m doing that I don’t allow myself to think otherwise.  But there are moments that I look at my blind allegiance to the Packers, and wonder if I make the same comparisons, true or false, in my own business.

Don’t worry, not giving up anytime soon 🙂  but it is important to keep a healthy perspective on everything.  Be honest with yourself, know when your criticism is valid, know what you want.  None of these are easy…  but it’s good to question.  Be faithful to your team, but be honest to your business….

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In my never ending quest to become a better entrepreneur, I started reading a new book.  I got it from one of my neighbors who is in the selling business, and she said it’s her favorite book, so I thought why not.  Well, I’m only 50 pages into it, and it’s already got my head swimming with new ideas.  I’m sure I’ll be coming back to this in future posts, but the first major lesson is in adding or providing value.  Now, this sounds obvious.  Of course you provide value, why else would someone pay you?

The twist on this is just to provide value, for the sake of helping others.  I’m still struggling a bit with this myself, since it’s a lot of work to do blog posts, email newsletters, fancy SAP products and consulting, just to help others.  Despite that, just reading through the chapters started to give me a perspective on ways to build new customers.  Again, this is material I’ve heard before in other ways, but sometimes just hearing it enough helps it to sink (at least for me).

So, the concept is simple.  Provide value for others, and in the end, it will come back to you.  Now, it’s a fine line as to what value truly is.  In my world, it might mean giving away some of my products to small to midsized customers.  It might mean doing some free consulting in my “spare time”.  It might mean recommending competitors products or services because they are more mature.  It will definitely mean continuing to blog and sharing my learning experiences to anyone willing to read my stuff.

so my question today is, how are you providing value to your customers? prospects? anyone in your life for that matter?  And hardest of all, how can you do it without ulterior motives involved 🙂  I’m still battling this, but even so, the idea of providing as much value as possible is clearly important.

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